Tonto Dike has been on the news a lot these past couple of weeks. And for nothing other than being a mother and a wife.
Its been one rumour of her husband having an affair with his PA to a true story of her apologies to Mercy Johnson for something she said to Mercy regarding her(Mercy's) child when she(Tonto) wasn't married.
I was really impressed with the way she publicly apologized to Mercy Johnson. It takes a great woman to acknowledge her faults and an even greater woman to come out years after to put things right. That there is a mother putting her child before herself.
Although I think Tonto Dike put herself and her marital affairs out there too much right after she got married, I don't think it's anyone's business what goes on in her home. Everyone is entitled to their methods of expressing happiness. Marriage is a beautiful experience when one is in it with the right person and under the right circumstances.
That she chose to express her joy by gushing about her husband and his gifts to her, doesn't mean rumors about their standing in the marriage should be peddled unfeelingly.
She is a mother now and a lot of things will change, abruptly and gradually. Let's cut her some slacks. She can't go every where with her #kingkong as in the days of old.
She has even gone as far as running tests and making the result public to prove to all "nosy bodies" that she's clean and can breastfeed her child without issues.
Let's please give her a rest from the constant poke nosing and let her be.
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